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Home Resources Estate Planning How to Get Guardianship of an Elderly Parent

How to Get Guardianship of an Elderly Parent

Gold Tetsola

Updated July 4, 2022 | Written by Gold Tetsola
Reviewed by Susan Chai, Esq.

One of the saddest things in life is watching elderly parent lose their ability to think clearly as they age.

This happens more frequently as people live longer, and Alzheimer’s and dementia rates continue to increase. Besides the emotional trauma, you must deal with complex practical realities, especially if they’re living alone.

Young smiling caregiver checking her older patient's hypertension

Your parent is not paying their bills. They not only forget your name but to take their prescription medicines. This leaves them vulnerable to physical problems. They might overdose if they took it once but forgot and retake it.

They forget they’re cooking, resulting in kitchen fires. They leave their house without knowing where they are going. They subscribe to every magazine that sends them a solicitation.

How to get Legal Guardianship

When someone cannot make rational decisions about their life or even participate in discussions about issues affecting them, they may need a court to appoint a legal guardian for them.

You can help your loved one get power of attorney if they have the mental capacity. That’s especially true if the person refuses to cooperate, such as moving from their old house to assisted living or a nursing home when they need that increased attention. It’s also true if families disagree on a course of action. Still, if the person is too incapable of signing a power of attorney or another advanced directive (such as a living will), they need a guardian.

When a court appoints you as someone’s legal guardian, that creates a fiduciary relationship between the two of you. You are legally responsible for them, and under the legal obligation to place their best interests above your own. That does remove some of their legal rights as an adult, but in some cases it is necessary.

Petition the Court

You petition the court to find your parent legally incompetent. It is a significant step that no judge wants to do without proof it’s necessary, mainly to prevent abuse. Therefore, the court will give your parent due process.

You’ll need expert medical opinions. Document everything about your parent that makes you believe they can no longer handle their affairs. The judge might want a court psychologist to examine them.

The court must first determine whether your parent does need a guardian or conservator. Next, they must determine that you are the best person to serve as that guardian. If your family is feuding, emotions run high and can turn ugly. It can also prolong the process, perhaps leaving your parent in a dangerous living situation while the attorneys argue. That also makes the process expensive. Your parent has the right to object to the entire process and to hire their lawyer.

You are the Guardian

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Suppose the judge determines your parent needs a guardian and appoints you. In that case, you are now legally responsible and accountable to the court for everything you do.

You need to remember:

  • Your parent is a ward.
  • You must decide what living arrangements they need.
  • You control their money.
  • You will have to set up new financial accounts.

Take the conservatorship court papers to the Social Security Administration and apply to serve as their representative payee. Notify their broker and mutual funds if they own financial assets. Take similar action for any other income they receive.

You must ensure they get the best medical care and comply with a doctor’s orders. If necessary, you have the right, or the obligation, to put them into a nursing home. It also means you make their end-of-life decisions.

Some states require legal guardians to attend classes on carrying out their duties and responsibilities.

Keep Complete and Accurate Records

Keep receipts for everything you buy with their money. As a representative payee, you must account once every year to the Social Security Administration for how you’ve spent their benefit checks. You need to account to the court for everything involved in this process.

Contact an Elder Attorney

Some people obtain guardianship without an attorney’s help just by learning and following their local procedures. If you seek legal help, Elder or Family Attorneys have experience with guardianship proceedings.

Gold Tetsola

Gold Tetsola

Personal & Family Editor

Gold Tetsola is a staff writer at LegalTemplates, his BA in English Literature & Language inspires him to navigate and simplify the complex issues of personal and family law.

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  • How to get Legal Guardianship
  • Petition the Court
  • You are the Guardian

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