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Home Resources Estate Planning How to Get Power of Attorney for an Elderly Parent or Loved One

How to Get Power of Attorney for an Elderly Parent or Loved One

Emily Crowley

Updated July 5, 2022 | Written by Emily Crowley
Reviewed by Susan Chai, Esq.

When parents age, they often lose the ability to take care of themselves and need assistance managing their affairs. Before this occurs, it’s a good idea for them to give someone else the legal authority to help them in certain situations by signing a power of attorney.

Elderly parents may need assistance with routine tasks like paying bills and signing important documents. If you have a loved one who can’t do these things independently, a power of attorney allows you to handle these issues for them. If your parent ends up in the hospital and can’t communicate, a power of attorney can help you make decisions about their health care.

A daughter helps her elderly father create a power of attorney document

Knowing how a power of attorney works and how to get one can empower you to provide your loved ones with the help they need.

How Does Power of Attorney Work?

A power of attorney (POA) is a legal document that lets your loved one (the principal) appoint a trusted person (called an agent) to manage their affairs to the extent that they choose.

There are several kinds of power of attorney documents, including:

  • Durable and non-durable power of attorney
  • Financial power of attorney
  • Medical power of attorney
  • Limited power of attorney

By selecting the correct type of power of attorney, the person creating the POA can decide when the agent’s powers begin and end and what actions the agent can take on their behalf.

For example, a durable financial power of attorney lets an agent manage some or all of the principal’s financial affairs only if they become incapacitated.

On the other hand, a Medical Power of Attorney gives the agent control over the principal’s critical medical decisions (like whether to receive specific treatments or medication) if they cannot communicate with their healthcare provider.

How to Become Someone’s Power of Attorney Agent

Depending on your situation, you may wish to become the power of attorney agent for your elderly parent or loved one, or someone else may fill this important role. As long as your parent has the mental capacity, they can legally choose an agent to represent them. Remember that you can’t influence someone else’s decision about who they choose as their power of attorney agent.

Learn how to get power of attorney for someone by following these steps:

Step 1: Ensure your loved one has the capacity to execute a POA

You must first ensure that your loved one has the legal capacity to execute a power of attorney. Legal capacity refers to the ability to make legal decisions for oneself. A person could be declared incapacitated for several reasons, including:

  • Unconsciousness
  • Dementia
  • Alzheimer’s disease
  • Intellectual disability

If your parent or loved one can’t understand what they are signing, they may not have the capacity to execute a POA.

Suppose your parent is already unable to execute a power of attorney due to incapacity. In that case, you will likely need to pursue legal guardianship instead to help them manage their affairs.

Step 2: Determine what type of power of attorney they need

There are several kinds of powers of attorney, each giving the agent slightly different powers. Depending on their needs, consider getting one or more of the following power of attorney documents for elderly parents:

  1. Durable Power of Attorney: A durable POA allows the agent to act on the principal’s behalf if they become incapacitated. By contrast, a non-durable POA takes effect when signed (or at the start date indicated on the document). It will become void automatically if a doctor determines the principal is incapacitated. Most of the POAs listed here can be made durable.
  2. Medical Power of Attorney: A medical POA allows the agent to make health care decisions for the principal. The principal can ensure the right person who knows what they would have wanted can help communicate their healthcare wishes if they become incapacitated.
  3. Financial Power of Attorney: A financial power of attorney allows the agent to manage and handle the principal’s financial affairs. The principal can give the agent as much or as little power as the principal wishes.
  4. General Power of Attorney: A general power of attorney gives the agent broad powers over the principal’s financial, business, real estate, or other legal matters. This is commonly used to permit banking on a person’s behalf or allow the agent to enter into contracts. This provides significant flexibility for the agent to take care of the principal’s affairs and gives the agent more power.
  5. Limited (Special) Power of Attorney: A limited power of attorney gives the agent particular powers as listed in the form. This type of POA is commonly used to allow the agent to complete one or more routine tasks for the principal.
  6. Springing Power of Attorney: As noted in the document, a springing POA only goes into effect upon a specific date or the occurrence of a particular event or condition. This makes it useful for those who want to plan for future events.

Remember that the principal can create multiple powers of attorney with different agents to cover various potential future needs.

>> MORE: What is a Durable Power of Attorney

Step 3: Discuss what authority they want to give the agent

Your parent or loved one may want to create a POA for many different reasons. Although it can be unpleasant to think about losing the ability to manage one’s affairs, try to discuss what your loved one would want to happen in different scenarios. For example, if they lose mobility and need help with routine transactions or if they become incapacitated.

Taking the time to plan and discuss potential future challenges will help all parties understand how to fill out the power of attorney form.

Once the principal has decided what powers to give their agent(s), they can write any specific instructions in the form. Because every person’s situation is different, your loved one can choose what powers they will grant the agent based on their wishes and needs.

Related: Preventing Family Feuds After Power of Attorney

Step 4: Complete and sign the power of attorney form

You can customize a power of attorney form to your situation to give your loved ones a sense of security over their affairs, even if they lose the ability to communicate.

Depending on your state, the principal must sign the power of attorney form in the presence of witnesses, a notary public, or both. You may also be required to provide copies of the POA to those involved (like agents and healthcare professionals).

If you or your loved one are unsure about any aspects of the document, seek legal counsel before signing.

Related: 4 Common Problems after Deciding on Power of Attorney

How Can You Get Power of Attorney for Someone Who is Incapacitated?

Your loved one can only enact a power of attorney form when they have the mental capacity to understand what they are signing and the legal ramifications of the document. Those who already have dementia or are otherwise incapacitated will not be able to sign a power of attorney.

Instead, family members can file a petition for legal guardianship over their loved ones. This petition is a court request seeking the legal authority to take over the affairs and care needs of the incapacitated adult. Check your state’s requirements if you decide that pursuing legal guardianship is the best choice for you and your loved one.

Emily Crowley

Emily Crowley

Estate Planning Editor

Emily Crowley is a staff writer at Legal Templates. Her background in nonprofit motivates her to improve access to legal advice in underserved groups, especially in end-of-life wishes and estate...

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